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First step to improve your communication

Hello folks,

In this article, I am revealing one of the untold secrets to improve your ability to speak English, naturally. Many of you would have attended many language classes, from various institutions and language trainers. In spite of many coaching and training sessions, you might not be able to speak English, fluently, and naturally. Do you know why? Read this completely.

"I am good in writing but when I speak, it is difficult.", "Sometimes I search for words" and "I am scared to talk in front of people".

These are a few statements; the English learners use it regularly. I wouldn't agree that these statements are facts. It could just be your assumptions! These are various thoughts, which appear in our mind repeatedly, in various situations. We also hear these statements from others, very often.

A great challenge for all of us is to handle the little men who are around us. Yes! People who put us down, who ridicule us when we interact in English. You hear the following statements from them.

"You better speak in your mother tongue, I can understand", "Your English is not that good", "English is very difficult, it is not your cup of tea", "You come from a different medium, learning English is not that easy" and "Why do you want to try this?"

We know how our mind works. The thoughts that are stored in our subconscious mind decides our future and life. "You become what you think - The Secret Book". When you repeatedly listen to the above-mentioned statements from the little men, you will start telling the following words to yourself, repeatedly.

"Speaking English is difficult", "Who found the English language?", "English language is the reason for my unemployment", "People make fun of me, when I speak English" and "I don't like to speak English".

These words become an integral part of your belief system, towards English. Your subconscious mind holds all these thoughts.

This negative belief system will never allow you to learn or speak English, naturally. Until and unless you re-program your subconscious mind, you will not be able to overcome this challenge. Don't be scared. I haven't completed it, yet.

I am sure that you want to know the solution.

AFFIRMATION!!!
Yes! Affirmation exercise can help you to overcome this challenge. I give this exercise to all my clients who join my One-to-one Premium Business English Coaching. I have witnessed an amazing transformation in their confidence and ability to speak English.
Of course, just Affirmation can never help you to improve your ability to speak English, naturally. You must have all English basics in place, a person to interact with, who has the ability to correct your mistakes and 30 to 45 mins of your time, every day, for a period of 45 days.

You have to repeat the following words every day to do the affirmation exercise. 7 times right after you wake up and 7 times before you hit the bed at night.

"Speaking English is easy", "English helps me to move forward in my career", "People appreciate me when I speak English", "I speak English, naturally" and "I love to speak English".

When you repeat these words with a lot of emotion and energy, it becomes your belief system. A positive belief system towards English is the first step to speak English, naturally.

You can ping me on my Whatsapp personal wall (+91 93846 31916) to connect with me and understand how to do the Affirmation Exercise, very effectively. You can also get a customized affirmation exercise, just made for you. It's going to help you to improve your confidence, capacity to learn English and ability to speak English, naturally.

Regards
Prabu RB 

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